The Cycle of Life

Cycle of life. People said that in life we will have ups and down, that's the nature of life, we cannot be static all the time. Guess it's true.

Let's talk about me. Myself.

My life is sure full with ups and downs. There is never a point where my life stays just like that without anything happening to me, it's either good or bad. However, some things remain the same, happen all over again repeatedly to me. But again, that is life, the cycle of it. The past that happened will probably happen again in the future. I believe that every action that we take influences our future. It really is, yes?

Think about it...

Every decisions, every person that you met in life, every actions you execute, every words you said, almost everything that you do... Give impact to our future, yes?

Me?
Well talking about cycle in life, let's talk about my dating life. I dated few guys, and as it failed and failed because it doesn't work out. As I give myself time to think about it, why and how did I encounter those situations that I preferably doesn't encounter. At last, I got the answer It's me.
But come on, looking at the bright side, I learnt a lot from it, it's umm... blessings in disguise.
It's what I demanded, asked for, wanted for, said and did.
I change everything, my demand, what I'm looking for kinda stuffs and the cycle stops.

People keep saying fate is what determines everything for us, but for me, this may sounds cliche, but honestly, it is us who determine our fate.
Let's see the analogies, one or two will be good.
First one... You want to get rich but you leave it to fate and sit at the corner waiting for the fate to pick you up and expecting your life change in a blink of eye like what we all read in fairy tale stories. Come on, senses up people! We don't have EFFING fairy godmothers or magic wands to help us! IT IS US WHO CAN CHANGE US. Work, show some effort and you will be rewarded in life.

Second... You love someone but you are not willing to sacrifice or show some efforts to make your partner happy. Will fate bring you both magically together married happily ever after and have one football team number of children? Think, use your brain.

Whatever it is, we should aim for something better. Get to know yourself better, know what you want and aim for it. It's not going to be easy as I'm still working to get what I'm looking for, for me, for myself. then, establish everything, work for it. Everything will comes to you, struggles will be there tho. But hey, if we really want something, GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION.

Till we meet again in this very page of expressions solely belong to a woman, me.



 

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